Stopping breastfeeding is never just a physical decision—it's emotional, confusing, and sometimes even heartbreaking. You've spent months, maybe even years, feeding your little one, and now the time has come to transition. Whether it's due to returning to work, health reasons, or simply because your baby is growing up, weaning can feel like a big milestone.
If you're considering using medicine or cream on nipples to stop breastfeeding, you’re not alone. Many Indian moms—from big cities like Mumbai and Delhi to smaller towns like Indore and Kochi—have gone through this journey. This guide will walk you through everything you need to know, using simple, easy-to-understand language, and with a personal tone—just like an elder sister or close friend talking to you.
Why Use Nipple Creams or Medicines to Stop Breastfeeding?
Sometimes babies just don’t want to stop nursing. You try everything—offering a bottle, changing the routine, even talking to your baby lovingly—but they still keep reaching for your breast.
That’s where nipple creams or medications come in. These are topical applications that make the taste of the breastmilk or the nipple area unpleasant for the baby, discouraging them from feeding.
Moms often say things like:
“Mera baccha toh kuch bhi kare, doodh chhodta hi nahi! Mujhe office bhi jaana tha, toh mummy ne bola kuch cream laga ke dekh.”
Using these methods can make the transition smoother—for both you and your baby.
Is It Safe to Apply Medicines on Nipples to Stop Breastfeeding?
This is the first and most important question. Safety comes first, always. And the answer is:
- Yes, but with care.
- You must consult a pediatrician or gynecologist before applying anything.
- Avoid any harmful or toxic substances that could make your baby sick if they nurse again by mistake.
Many traditional Indian remedies use bitter-tasting herbs, while modern medicine has specialized ointments and medications.
Common Medicines and Creams Used in India to Stop Breastfeeding
Let’s break it down into two parts: medically-approved products and home remedies.
1️⃣Neem Oil (Azadirachta indica)
Neem oil is a time-tested Indian nuskha. It tastes bitter and most babies instantly pull away after tasting it.
- How to Use: Apply a few drops on the nipple before feeding time.
- Effect: The bitter taste discourages suckling.
- Caution: Make sure your baby doesn’t swallow too much. Wash off after every attempt.
“Meri dadi ne bola neem lagake dekh, ek do din mein hi baccha samajh gaya ki doodh ab nahi milne wala.”
2️⃣Vicks VapoRub (Mentholated Ointment)
Some mothers apply a very small amount of Vicks or similar mentholated balm. The strong smell and taste act as a deterrent.
- How to Use: Apply a tiny dab (not near the areola). Wash it off after.
- Effect: Smell makes baby fussy and reduces interest in breastfeeding.
- Caution: Not recommended by doctors due to possible side effects if ingested.
It’s better to use this only with medical advice.
3️⃣Aloe Vera Gel
Aloe vera has a cooling, bitter taste, and is completely natural.
- How to Use: Use fresh aloe vera or store-bought edible gel.
- Effect: Many babies don’t like the taste and stop feeding.
- Bonus: It also soothes sore nipples during weaning.
4️⃣Doctor-Prescribed Nipple Creams
In India, some dermatologists and pediatricians may suggest medicated creams like:
- Betadine Ointment
- Clotrimazole Cream (in case of fungal infections)
- Lanolin-based Creams like Lansinoh
Important: These are not to stop breastfeeding but to treat cracked nipples during weaning.
Some moms use these to discourage feeding because of the bitter taste or doctor's instructions to avoid nursing during treatment.
5️⃣Bitter Gourd Juice / Karela Paste
A traditional Indian remedy passed down for generations.
- How to Use: Apply fresh karela juice or paste on nipples.
- Effect: The bitterness usually makes the baby stop feeding within 2–3 days.
“Karela se toh koi bhi baccha bhaag jaayega!” 😄
How Long Does It Take for the Baby to Stop?
Every baby is different. Some might stop in 2 days, while others may take a week or more.
Here’s what most moms in India report:
- Day 1–2: Baby resists, cries, tries to latch.
- Day 3–4: Shows reduced interest, starts eating more solids.
- Day 5–7: Mostly adjusted to life without breastmilk.
Stay consistent, offer lots of love and cuddles, and don’t give in.
Emotional Side of Weaning – For You and Your Baby
Let’s be honest—it’s not just about medicines or creams. Weaning can be a very emotional time.
You might feel:
- Guilt
- Sadness
- Relief
- Confusion
- All of these feelings are normal and okay.
"Mujhe laga main selfish hoon kyunki mujhe thoda aaram chahiye tha. Par phir samjha ki main bhi insaan hoon."
Don’t be too hard on yourself. It’s okay to take this step when you’re ready.
Tips to Make Weaning Easier Along with Medicines
- Reduce one feed at a time.
- Offer distractions like toys or food during usual feeding times.
- Feed in a different room or change the routine.
- Let another family member put the baby to sleep.
- Use cow’s milk (if baby is 1+ year) or formula as needed.
- Stay calm, loving, and consistent.
What Not to Do While Using Nipple Creams to Stop Breastfeeding
❌ Don’t apply anything without checking safety
❌ Don’t use harmful or spicy substances like chilli
❌ Don’t scold or shame your baby for wanting to feed
❌ Don’t expect instant results
When to Avoid Nipple Creams Altogether
There are cases where using creams or bitter substances isn’t the best idea, like:
- If your baby is under 6 months
- If they have skin sensitivity
- If they’re teething or sick
- If you’ve had any breast infection
In such cases, it's best to use gradual weaning methods or consult a pediatrician.
Doctor Recommendations and Scientific Views
While many of these remedies are based on experience and tradition, there is also medical guidance on weaning:
- WHO recommends exclusive breastfeeding for 6 months, then weaning by 2 years
- Indian Academy of Pediatrics supports gradual, gentle weaning
- Medicines like Cabergoline or Bromocriptine may be prescribed in some extreme cases to stop milk production (under doctor supervision only)
Final Thoughts
Maa banna aasan nahi hota. Whether it’s starting breastfeeding or stopping it, it’s always an emotional rollercoaster. Remember:
“Doodh chhodwana ek naya chapter hai, aur har maa apni kahani likhti hai.”
Using nipple creams or medicines is just one part of that story. Do what feels right for you, with love, patience, and care.
If you ever feel overwhelmed, talk to:
- A doctor
- A lactation consultant
- Another mom who’s been there
And most importantly, believe in yourself. You’re doing a great job, maa! ❤️
FAQs
Q. Is it okay to use bitter herbs to stop breastfeeding?
Yes, with caution. Use only natural herbs like neem or aloe vera in small amounts and wash thoroughly after each use.
Q. Will my baby hate me for doing this?
Not at all! Babies are resilient and adaptable. They may cry for a few days, but with love and attention, they’ll adjust.
Q. Can I apply dettol or some antiseptic?
No! Never apply Dettol or any chemical disinfectant. These are toxic and unsafe.
Q. My mother-in-law is pressuring me to stop. What should I do?
You decide what's best for you and your baby. Take advice, but trust your instincts and consult your doctor.